8 Great Reasons for Staying Single

17 04 2009

Being single allows a person to have total control over¬†what and who they want to do ūüėȬ† It is a time in one’s life where¬†you¬†can afford to be as selfish as¬†you like because you don’t have to worry about anyone but yourself.¬†¬†An unattached individual¬†encompasses the feelings of freedom, independence, sovereignty, and power.¬† For some, single-hood becomes a way of life that¬† is much more comfortable and enjoyable than being attached in a committed relationship.¬† Whether you are a lifetime single or someone who is fresh and new to this way of life…embrace it because it sure has a lot to offer!…

We are witnessing a major trend in the growth of the US singles population as more people are choosing to wait longer before settling down and getting married.¬†¬† Maybe this trend correlates to the increasing US divorce rate or maybe being single is just so much fun that people are making it a way of life.¬† Whatever the reason, people are loving and living the single life.¬† Here is my list of some of the best reasons to stay single…

1.)¬† You get to do WHAT you want, WHEN you want…

You never have to ask if it’s OK for you to go on that vacation, call that person, or buy that thing.¬† Every single decision you make is up to you and you alone.¬† No need to worry about what the other person is going to think.

2.)¬† You get to take your sweet time…

Marriage is a HUGE commitment, a life-time deal, a wake up in bed next to the same person every day for the rest of your life decision.¬† Take your time!¬† When you are single, you won’t have to worry about having someone constantly harassing you about “the next step” or the “L” word.¬† You get to go at your own pace and enjoy every minute of it.

3.)¬† If¬†the¬†SEX is¬†boring…you can do it with someone else!

If you think that waking up next to the same person for the rest of your life is bad…imagine how scary it could be to have sex with that same one person…and nobody else…forever!¬† AHHH! If that thought freaks you out, then you are definitely better of being single.¬† If you sleep with someone and it sucks…go sleep with someone else.¬† If you are sleeping with someone who gains a hefty 15 pounds and it becomes a little too much cushion for the pushing…then ditch the fatty!¬† That’s the joy of having no commitment…you can leave whenever you want.

4.)  You can focus on your CAREER

Yup!¬† This is a biggie!¬† Without the pressure and stresses of a commitment to another person, you can focus solely on yourself…this means it’s time to start getting your shit together.¬† A career…especially in the current economic situation…is extremely important!¬† So go tackle that new job or apply to graduate school…it’s all up to you!

5.) You can build your WEALTH

Heck Yes you can!¬† We all know how expensive it can be to have a significant other…especially if that “other” is a woman who loves shopping ūüôā¬† When you only have to worry about your own expenses, you will be able to put a lot more money away in savings.

6.) You can keep all of your TOYS and Quirks

OK, for the men…if you don’t have a woman in your life, then you have a lot more room and time for your “toys.”¬† I’m talking about cars, boats, video games, and whatever else sparks your fancy.¬† As for the ladies, you can keep your pink wallpaper and barbie collection dolls without a single word being said.¬† And in regards to quirks…when you are single you can sleep, talk, walk, burp, and eat in any manner you want.¬† You don’t have to deal with someone constantly picking and analyzing every little thing you do or don’t do.

7.)  You can enjoy serenity

Ahhh Yes!  Although being single can bring on some pretty wild and crazy moments, at the end of the day, you get to go home to your own room, with your own bed, and watch your own TV shows.  You get to enjoy your independence and what an empowering thing that can be!

8.)¬† You don’t EVER have to compromise

Never again do you have to “meet in the middle” or “give in” just because you have to make sure that the other person is happy.¬† Being single is all about you, you, you.¬† If you want to do something, do it, and don’t ever feel bad about it.

This is your life…and you only have one to live, so live it…and keep it SINGLE!





Travis Barker and Shanna Moakler…”It’s Over!”…Again…

2 04 2009

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Looks like the on-again off-again couple is OFF…again.¬† I wonder how long their supposed break up will last this time?¬† My guess is no more than a week.¬† Maybe the reason these two are always calling it quits just¬†to jump right back in,¬†is because they have really good make up sex…humm…you just never know?

Travis and Shanna’s relationship has been a roller coaster ride from the very beginning.¬† The unstable couple has been though a lot, including a reality television show stint, two kids, a divorce, Travis’s near death plane crash, and now an alleged affair?¬† Yup…the drama is nowhere near being over as the couple decides to spilt again (we have lost count on the number) after a vicious argument erupted over Shanna’s so called affair with movie star hottie, Gerard Butler.¬† Apparently, while Travis was hospitalized after barely surviving a brutal plane crash, the former Miss America¬†and mother of two¬†was busy enjoying Butler’s chiseled abs.

While it may seem¬†like¬†Shana is insensitive, this is not the case…AT ALL.¬† Yesterday,¬†Moakler lashed back in her official blog that she is sick and tired of having her character and morality bashed.¬† She explains that at the time of the plane crash, Travis and her were very much committed and she stood by his side for love and support.¬† However, after he was well enough to return to LA, she discovered¬† romantic emails from numerous women that confirmed Travis’ lies and infidelity.

Shana is not the only one who is at fault here.¬† Both individuals engaged in wrongful acts and expressed inappropriate behavior, and BOTH should take responsibility for their mistakes.¬† Travis Barker needs to grow some balls and admit that his ex wife is not the only one at fault here.¬† I mean, come on…What do you expect your significant other to do if she finds erotic emails from women who are not her?¬† You can bet she will go find herself some loving too.¬† Duh!

Maybe if they both apologize they can decide to reconcile their differences for the thousandth time and get back together, AGAIN.  Blah!





OnlineBootyCall.com, John Legend & Estelle Party

17 01 2009

OnlineBootyCall.com invited us out to their afterparty in San Diego for John Legend and Estelle’s Birthday.¬† The place (Stingaree) was packed, it was a total blast and my god, so may hot girls!¬† There’s pic of Moses and Estelle below from the party and Bossip did a little article too.

We have to say, although we’re a bit biased here, that it’s so great to see an online dating site like OnlineBootyCall.com expanding the casual dating scene.¬† Their awesome parties are a much welcomed contrast from eharmony’s stuffy, fumpy and boring approach to dating.

If anyone wants to see some better pics of John Legend, Moses Brown & Estelle, check out the pro’s from wireimage

It was great to have some celebs in SD that really know how to party!  Estelle and John Legend sang and the ladies went wild, which was, Awesome!

Moses Brown, OnlineBootyCall.com and Estelle

Moses Brown, OnlineBootyCall.com and Estelle

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John Legend & Moses Brown, OnlineBootyCall.com

We got some great video at the party too, but I’ll have to put that up after I detox for a bit haha….





Alec on Kissing Aniston

18 11 2008

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I think my love affair for Jennifer Aniston started when she was in the movie Office Space.¬† I also think that movie really solidified my distaste for cubicals, but that’s another post.¬† I can’t say that Brad was a fool for going for Angalina, but I must say that Jennifer is one amazing woman.

Anyway in my daily cruising around the web, I came across this little story from New York Magazine which gives Alec’s thoughts on Kissing Aniston, who played a crazy lover on an episode of 30 Rock.

Alec also talks a bit about if crazy people are great lovers or not.  The short of it:  girls = yes, guys = no.

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Top Iraqi Dating Site

28 10 2008

Looks like our favorite site www.OnlineBootyCall.com is kicking some ass.¬† They’re currently the top dating site in Iraq, thanks of course to the soldiers.¬† Get the full story and click below:

http://digg.com/world_news/OnlineBootyCall_com_Top_Dating_Site_In_Iraq





Marky Mark on Marriage

23 10 2008

Now that we’ve been at this blog for a minute, I’ve come to realize just how much attention celebrity relationships get. I don’t think all the attention is unwarranted. Celebrity relationships are usually interesting, especially so, because a great many of them end in total disaster. This helps to explain their special place in the public eye. Right up there along side train wrecks.

Mark Wahlberg may prove however to be the exception to the rule. (we’re open to taking bets on this). He has announced his engagement and wedding next summer to his long time girl-friend and mother of his children Rhea Durham.

What we found unique about this announcement was that Wahlberg included reasons as to why he was ready for marriage and how he thinks marriage will improve their relationship.

“I wasn’t prepared to be married ‚Äď I don’t care who it was ‚Äď at [age] 20 or 30,” said Wahlberg. But now, he says, he’s ready for “committing to really making it work constantly and all the other things that go into building a solid foundation.”

People Magazine gives the full story with all the details on how Wahlberg plans to change his life as he prepares for marriage and the new responsibility.

There’s no guarantee how the marriage will turn out, but we want to give credit where credit is due. Mark Wahlberg, great job on waiting to get married until you had shown to yourself, and those that mattered most, that you had earned the responsibility and you were ready to commit to it!

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Madonna’s Split A Good Warning

17 10 2008

I’ve heard this advice several times, “you want for your life to be an example to others, not a warning.” Madonna and Ritchie’s recent split a.k.a legal filing for divorce, stands as a strong warning on how things can go very bad in marriage.

The link will take you to The Telegraph’s article on Madonna’s oppressive and rigid rules and just down unattractive actions. I mean really!?! Sleeping on a vat full of creams each night? I can hear it now “so sorry baby I’m not in the mood, since I’m already wrapped in a sack full of creamy crap.”

Then good ‘ol guy rolls over bummed out, thinking: “we’ll I’ll just turn on the tube for a minute.” Guess what? WRONG! Not in Madonna’s house! No TV for you sir. How freaking miserable.

So let yet another disastrous celebrity marriage stand as good warning! Please, take your time and proceed with caution as you approach marriage!

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