8 Great Reasons for Staying Single

17 04 2009

Being single allows a person to have total control over¬†what and who they want to do ūüėȬ† It is a time in one’s life where¬†you¬†can afford to be as selfish as¬†you like because you don’t have to worry about anyone but yourself.¬†¬†An unattached individual¬†encompasses the feelings of freedom, independence, sovereignty, and power.¬† For some, single-hood becomes a way of life that¬† is much more comfortable and enjoyable than being attached in a committed relationship.¬† Whether you are a lifetime single or someone who is fresh and new to this way of life…embrace it because it sure has a lot to offer!…

We are witnessing a major trend in the growth of the US singles population as more people are choosing to wait longer before settling down and getting married.¬†¬† Maybe this trend correlates to the increasing US divorce rate or maybe being single is just so much fun that people are making it a way of life.¬† Whatever the reason, people are loving and living the single life.¬† Here is my list of some of the best reasons to stay single…

1.)¬† You get to do WHAT you want, WHEN you want…

You never have to ask if it’s OK for you to go on that vacation, call that person, or buy that thing.¬† Every single decision you make is up to you and you alone.¬† No need to worry about what the other person is going to think.

2.)¬† You get to take your sweet time…

Marriage is a HUGE commitment, a life-time deal, a wake up in bed next to the same person every day for the rest of your life decision.¬† Take your time!¬† When you are single, you won’t have to worry about having someone constantly harassing you about “the next step” or the “L” word.¬† You get to go at your own pace and enjoy every minute of it.

3.)¬† If¬†the¬†SEX is¬†boring…you can do it with someone else!

If you think that waking up next to the same person for the rest of your life is bad…imagine how scary it could be to have sex with that same one person…and nobody else…forever!¬† AHHH! If that thought freaks you out, then you are definitely better of being single.¬† If you sleep with someone and it sucks…go sleep with someone else.¬† If you are sleeping with someone who gains a hefty 15 pounds and it becomes a little too much cushion for the pushing…then ditch the fatty!¬† That’s the joy of having no commitment…you can leave whenever you want.

4.)  You can focus on your CAREER

Yup!¬† This is a biggie!¬† Without the pressure and stresses of a commitment to another person, you can focus solely on yourself…this means it’s time to start getting your shit together.¬† A career…especially in the current economic situation…is extremely important!¬† So go tackle that new job or apply to graduate school…it’s all up to you!

5.) You can build your WEALTH

Heck Yes you can!¬† We all know how expensive it can be to have a significant other…especially if that “other” is a woman who loves shopping ūüôā¬† When you only have to worry about your own expenses, you will be able to put a lot more money away in savings.

6.) You can keep all of your TOYS and Quirks

OK, for the men…if you don’t have a woman in your life, then you have a lot more room and time for your “toys.”¬† I’m talking about cars, boats, video games, and whatever else sparks your fancy.¬† As for the ladies, you can keep your pink wallpaper and barbie collection dolls without a single word being said.¬† And in regards to quirks…when you are single you can sleep, talk, walk, burp, and eat in any manner you want.¬† You don’t have to deal with someone constantly picking and analyzing every little thing you do or don’t do.

7.)  You can enjoy serenity

Ahhh Yes!  Although being single can bring on some pretty wild and crazy moments, at the end of the day, you get to go home to your own room, with your own bed, and watch your own TV shows.  You get to enjoy your independence and what an empowering thing that can be!

8.)¬† You don’t EVER have to compromise

Never again do you have to “meet in the middle” or “give in” just because you have to make sure that the other person is happy.¬† Being single is all about you, you, you.¬† If you want to do something, do it, and don’t ever feel bad about it.

This is your life…and you only have one to live, so live it…and keep it SINGLE!


Marriage Can Wait…And it Definitely Did for David Letterman

30 03 2009

David Letterman and Regina Lasko

At the ripe age of 62,¬†funny guy David Letterman finally decided to leave his bachelorhood behind him and marry his long term girlfriend Regina Lasko.¬† Although the couple had an¬†established¬†relationship, it took them over 23 years to tie the knot.¬† That’s gotta be some kind of record!¬† David Letterman definitely makes a lot of guys out there who’s impatient girlfriends are “feed up with waiting so long for them to propose,” look really good.

The newly wed can offer¬†us all some sound relationship advice…Wait to get married!¬† With divorce rates now approaching 50%, there is a serious need for people to take their sweet time and stop rushing into marriage.¬† Before you decide to lock it up with one person for the rest of your life…make sure you have had your fair share and then some of freedom, independence, selfishness, and booty, booty, booty!

So what made the commitment-phobe finally decide to pop the question?¬† David reveled his “Top 10” Reasons for Getting Married on the David Letterman show.¬† Here they are:

10. Poconos offers newlyweds a free room with a champagne-glass jacuzzi.

9. If¬† I’m gonna catch Larry King, I’d better get going.

8. Still drunk from Saint Patty’s, dude.

7. She needed a green card.

6. When you’re my age and look like I do, If someone says they’ll marry you, you do it.

5. Don’t have to listen to any more crap from that quack Dr. Phil.

4. I finally fit into my dream dress!

3. Free cake.

2. Got tired of waiting for Paris Hilton.

1. Figured at the least, we’d get a mediocre Top 10 out of it.

Hopefully at the least that makes you laugh, and at the most, gives you some serious insight into why marriage can wait!

Sex Dreams, Why So Hush Hush?

28 08 2008
sweet, sweet, dreamy sex

sweet, sweet, dreamy sex

I relish a great sex dream, despite their unfortunate label of “wet dreams” by stupid 7th grade health teachers. I find few things more exciting than those unannounced, yet enrapturing sex dreams. They happen far too rarely. Maybe I have better sex dreams than most people (many people only have symbolic sex dreams) or maybe not… but I do know that I am a vivid dreamer that can hold on to the memory and feelings of a dream for several days.

Interestingly, when sex dreams do occur for me, it’s never with someone I know, or at least, not an exact representation. Often, it’s only later that I realize who the person in the dream represents in my real life.

Yet, experiencing that moment in the dream, that person is someone new, different, stunning, and amazing… to be straight, it’s a like a finding a new fling, a new intense attraction, and this I love. Hell, many times I’ve actually been bummed to realize the person I had “connected” with in my dreams isn’t real and will never be a real part of my life. It’s wild, I know.

So, what does this say about our subconscious? For me, it’s not only a reminder of our extraordinary yearning for sexual intimacy, but also our profound desire to have more than one mate. There is a deep longing manifested in our dreams, where our conscience and inhibitions are not available to prevent our unvoiced impulses.

In this regard we can look at the conscious discipline required for a successful marriage. One must be willing to overcome these powerful wishes, a noble feat, should it be achieved. Plus, it’s not meant to be an exercise of a few months or years, but by the very essence of marriage, it’s meant to be a lifetime. For some of the “blessed” who believe in eternal souls, marriage signifies a devotion for all of time. Yes, a commitment to infinity.

I don’t presume to tell everyone what to do with their love life, or how they should structure their relationships. I wish only to caution, that the commitment to marriage and monogamy is truly a tough row to hoe.

So, we must take the hard-look in the mirror and see if we are being realistic about the choice to promise ourselves, to another, forever. It can be hard to do the right thing, but if you’re not up for the challenge, if there is any doubt, stop. Don’t rush, get right with yourself and understand what is required before you fail to live up to your word.

Sex dreams… why so hush hush? Simple. We are afraid to talk about our desires for sex, our desires for others, and admit the life we are living might just be a lie…

Finally, remember (and pay respect to) the people who do sacrifice lust, carnal desires, every day for their entire life so they can have real marriages. These people are indeed amazing; they are people worthy of our most sincere congratulations. Yet, this discipline is a choice, not a requirement to be lorded over everyone’s head.

Marriage is a discipline, and just like fasting, it should be exercised only by those who willingly choose the path and understand the sacrifices required to walk it.

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